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TANSAL ABUSE LINKS

AND HUMAN RIGHTS

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On the following pages are Links to other Websites, which in turn lead to other Sites and information.  There are also postal addresses of Directories listing Survivor organisations and plenty of other sources.

Different approaches suit different people.  The more you know about what there is out there, the sooner you'll find something which could benefit you or someone you know who needs help.

When you need help, it's not easy to ask around unless you know someone already helping people, not easy to raise the subject in the first place, not easy to walk into a bookshop and ask for books, and so on.  See the Books & Information Page, and Note below on BOOKS.

Help can turn up in unexpected ways.  We hope, if there is not a specific organisation near you, there'll be some support you can make use of via someone you know, by telephoning a national organisation such as The Samaritans (who are there 24 hours a day), Helplines appearing after a TV programme, or by following up something from a book, a newspaper or magazine article

Click for information on Samaritans and other useful Websites. 
Click for information on Directories and other information.

Problems; Missing from Home/ Runaways
Group, Family & Other Pressures
Missing from Home/ Runaways

BBC Website at www.bbc.co.uk/headroom
How to ‘Unwind Your Mind’ (some needs Java & Flash)
or click at top left of their Website for Text Only
Contacts for Help - plenty of LINKS

Myth Buster section explains some common Mental Health ‘myths’ or misunderstandings

‘Missing Live’ TV - People say why they missing

See Moodscape to create your own online Animation
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MISSING PEOPLE - Free TEXT for young Runaways
Text to 80234 : Freefone 24-hour Helpline 0808 800 70 70
You can Email too – See www.missingpeople.org.uk

ACTION for CHILDREN help families through difficult periods - See Website for text and relevant information on their animated TV ads - www.actionforchildren.org.uk

More Doc Matrix HelpLinks including
Disability information
 

Site Summary
Survivor Links are all now on Page 3
General Links, Page 4  :  Young People, Page 4
Directories/ Offline/ Other information
Violence, Stalking, Harassment, Bullying, Coercive
Mental Health, Books & some Events

Other Links:
Human Rights/Civil Liberties - includes UK info
Group Aspects of Behaviour, Dissing, Cults, Beliefs, Scams
Scapegoating & Abuse
Guidelines on Seeking Help/ Self-Help

YOUNG PEOPLE & STUDENTS

PAPYRUS - for young people, or if you are concerned for someone
http://www.papyrus-uk.org
LINKS at http://www.papyrus-uk.org/useful-links.html

HOPELine UK Telephone
08000 68 41 41   

http://www.papyrus-uk.org/hln.html
   

Annual March & Rally 2009 against Child Sexual Abuse
Saturday 26th September, central London from mid-day, talks in the afternoon
Details: Step-Up 020 8517 5888 & Stop Child Abuse http://stopchildabuse.org.uk/

BOOKS  Large bookshops have sections relating to Psychology, Self-Help, Child Abuse, Social Work. There are more books nowadays written in plain language, both by people who have experienced childhood abuse themselves, and by people who help Survivors of abuse, giving useful information in a non-threatening way.
You can search on the Internet for books and information, and work towards something to suit you.  Many Websites which you can reach via the Links Pages on this Site, also list useful books.

MAIL ORDER
www.dabsbooks.co.uk (mail order books on a wide range of survivor issues plus Resource Directory)
www.amazon.co.uk (UK branch of Amazon Books)
www.amazon.com (USA Amazon Books - If you have a credit/debit card you will be charged in your own currency and their service to the UK is normally good.
To search for books of interest, enter the name of the author, or words from the book title.  Try to find information and help which suits you personally.

 

You can search the Internet for information, follow Links. look in Directories or Newsletters, and work towards something to suit you.  The purpose of these Websites is to help you in this search,
to encourage you to believe that there is good help out there.

It may be difficult to find something in your area, or something relating
to your own personal experiences, but it is worth the effort.
You can print these pages off for anyone you know who is seeking help.


For Non-Web Users - If you know someone with Internet access and a printer, or you can
get to an Internet café or Library ask them to print parts of this Site or other information.

 
 

 

IF YOU ARE supporting a friend or person who has experienced abuse or is in an abusive situation now:

Click HERE for Survivor Links
Click HERE for Supporting a Survivor of Abuse
Click HERE for Supporting a Survivor of Cult Ritual Abuse
Click HERE for information on Domestic Violence, Stalking, Harassment, Bullying, Coercion
Click HERE for General Links

Search Engines:  www.google.com, www.yahoo.co.uk, www.lycos.co.uk, www.ask.com  etc.

Or download WEBFERRET free at www.ferretsoft.com
 
 

Safety tips for being in contact both on and off-line

Network for Surviving Stalking www.nss.org.uk

Crimestoppers Personal Safety
www.crimestoppers-uk.org/crime-prevention/helping-prevent-crime/personal-safety

Suzy Lamplugh Trust - Personal Safety Tips http://www.suzylamplugh.org/content.a...

Lucie Blackman Trust www.lucieblackmantrust.org

Also see Safety Text scheme www.safetytext.co.uk/HowToST.shtml

& Smart Call scheme www.safetytext.co.uk/Smart.shtml

Bully Online www.bullyonline.org The Field Foundation

 

BOOKS

'Murder.com' - How death can be only a click away, by Christopher Berry-Dee & Steven Morris;

'Stalkers - True-life stories of harassment, jealousy & obsession' by Polly Clarkson

'Anyone You Want Me To Be - A true story of sex & death on the Internet' by John Douglas & Steven Singular

'I'll Be Watching You - True stories of stalkers & their victims' by Richard Gallagher

'Erased - Missing women, murdered wives' by Marilee Strong

'Without Conscience - The world of psychopaths among us' by Robert D Hare

'The Sociopath Next Door' by Martha Stout

 

IF YOU FIND ANY SITUATION BECOMING TOO HARD TO HANDLE
THERE IS NOTHING TO BE ASHAMED OF IN ADMITTING TO YOURSELF OR OTHERS
THAT YOU MAY NEED TO LEAVE IT, OR THAT YOU NEED SOME SUPPORT

GOTO Guidelines for Seeking Help plus Self-Help

Neither TANSAL nor any individuals involved in providing information for our Websites
or Links can be held responsible in any way for any of the organisations,
books other information mentioned here or elsewhere.

We regret that we are unable to give support to individuals
but hope you will find something to follow up on and support you on these pages.

 

The Abuse Network Survivor Aid Links |
Supporting a Survivor of Abuse |
NEW - Human Rights, Disabilities, Mental Health, Injustice |

Scapegoating, Abuse & One-upmanship |
Domestic Violence, Stalking, Bullying, Coercive Relationships |
Social/Group Aspects of Behaviour, Cults, Beliefs, Scams |

Survivor Links | General Links |
Directories/ Offline/ Other Information |

Guidelines for Seeking Help/ Self-Help |
Books, Events, Training, Mental Health Issues